A sailor can never adjust the direction of the wind; it blows wherever it chooses to blow. However, a sailor can adjust his sails in such a manner that he collaborates with the wind, and together they can go far!
The Spirit of God moves in ways we do not always understand. He is relentless and many grow weary trying to divert His breath.
Perhaps it would be better to unfurl your spiritual sail to maximize your exposure to Him. In doing so, you may just begin the adventure of a lifetime!
“The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit.” ~Jesus