As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another
Proverbs 27:17
Have you ever watched a skilled chef carefully sharpen a knife?
It’s a delicate process that requires precision and intention. The chef takes a coarse stone and methodically hones the blade, transforming a dull instrument into a sharp tool.
This same principle applies to our relationships. Just as a knife needs sharpening to perform its best, so do we.
Beyond Surface-Level Connections
When the Bible talks about “iron sharpening iron” (Proverbs 27:17), it’s not referring to casual acquaintances or social media followers.
It’s about deep, meaningful relationships that challenge us to grow, encourage us to persevere, and hold us accountable.
These are the kinds of friendships that shape us, mold us, and make us better people.
The Sharpening Process
Now, let’s be honest. The sharpening process isn’t always comfortable.
Sometimes it involves difficult conversations, honest feedback, or even constructive criticism.
But it’s through these experiences that we learn, grow, and become stronger.
Finding Your Iron Friends
So, who are your iron friends?
- They challenge you: They push you out of your comfort zone and encourage you to reach your full potential.
- They support you: They’re there for you through thick and thin, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on.
- They speak truth: They’re honest with you, even when it’s hard to hear.
- They love you unconditionally: They accept you for who you are and love you despite your flaws.
Your Friendship Check-In
Take a moment to reflect on your friendships.
- Who is sharpening you? Are there people in your life who are helping you grow and develop?
- Who are you sharpening? Are you investing in the lives of others and helping them become better versions of themselves?
If you’re not sure, it might be time to reevaluate your relationships.
Are you surrounding yourself with people who lift you up or bring you down?
Commit to building and nurturing relationships that sharpen you. Be the kind of friend who encourages, supports, and challenges others.

Upside Down: 15 Week Bible Study
You Have Been Seated with Christ in the Heavenly Realms
God’s great hope for us is not simply the forgiveness of sins and a place in heaven when we die; but rather, He wants us totally restored, in heart, mind and soul . . . NOW!
As we enter into this amazing adventure with God, we soon recognize that we are a part of something tremendous, something that is beyond our earthy perspective, and we are transported into the heavens with Christ; we live, breathe, and find our being in Him!
This Bible study will help you rediscover how it all began, what happened in the Garden of Eden, who is the Devil really, and what is he up to today.
- Head into the heavenly realms and discover profound truths concerning your relationship with God, and His incredible plan for you.
- Search your heart, preparing for a fresh baptism of the Holy Spirit. In this study, you will enter into God’s armory, suiting up with the whole armor of God.
- Discover the Keys to the Kingdom given to you, and learn what they unlock; discovering your true nature in Christ, the authority given, the Sword of the Spirit, the covering armor, and the mission ahead, you will truly learn to pray . . . Upside Down!