At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
Matthew 22:30
Have you ever wondered what will happen to your marriage in heaven?
Maybe you’re single and curious about relationships in eternity.
Today, we’re going to look at one of Jesus’s most interesting teachings about life after resurrection.
Understanding the Context
Jesus wasn’t trying to discourage us about marriage. Instead, He was answering a trick question from the Sadducees who didn’t believe in resurrection.
They had created an elaborate scenario about a woman who had married seven brothers (each after the previous one died), asking whose wife she would be in heaven.
A Different Kind of Existence
When Jesus says we’ll be “like the angels,” He’s not saying we’ll become angels – that’s a common misunderstanding.
He’s pointing to a transformed existence that’s beyond our current earthly experience.
Think about how a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly – it’s still the same creature, but in a completely new form with different capabilities and purpose.
What This Means for You Today
You might be wondering, “Does this mean I won’t recognize my spouse in heaven?”
Take heart – Jesus isn’t saying relationships won’t matter in heaven. Instead, He’s telling us that relationships will be transformed into something even more beautiful and fulfilling than we can imagine.
The Present Impact
Here’s something to think about: Understanding this truth can actually enhance your current relationships.
When you realize that marriage is a gift for this earthly life, you can:
- Appreciate your spouse or future spouse more deeply
- Focus on the present joy of your relationships
- Release anxiety about eternal relationship status
- Embrace God’s perfect plan for both now and eternity
Finding Peace in the Promise
Remember, heaven isn’t about losing what we have – it’s about gaining something far greater.
Just as a child’s understanding grows into adult wisdom, our earthly relationships will mature into something more wonderful than we can currently comprehend.
Practical Application
Take a moment today to:
- Thank God for the gift of earthly relationships
- Consider how this teaching helps you view your current relationships
- Rest in the knowledge that God’s eternal plan is perfect, even if it’s different from what we might expect
Closing Thoughts
The next time you find yourself wondering about heaven, remember that God hasn’t designed it to take away our joy, but to complete it.
We don’t need to worry about losing the precious connections we have now – instead, we can look forward to experiencing relationships in their perfect, eternal form.
Let this truth bring you peace today. Your relationships matter now, and they’ll be transformed into something even more beautiful in eternity. That’s not a loss – it’s the ultimate gain.
Upside Down: 15 Week Bible Study
You Have Been Seated with Christ in the Heavenly Realms
God’s great hope for us is not simply the forgiveness of sins and a place in heaven when we die; but rather, He wants us totally restored, in heart, mind and soul . . . NOW!
As we enter into this amazing adventure with God, we soon recognize that we are a part of something tremendous, something that is beyond our earthy perspective, and we are transported into the heavens with Christ; we live, breathe, and find our being in Him!
This Bible study will help you rediscover how it all began, what happened in the Garden of Eden, who is the Devil really, and what is he up to today.
- Head into the heavenly realms and discover profound truths concerning your relationship with God, and His incredible plan for you.
- Search your heart, preparing for a fresh baptism of the Holy Spirit. In this study, you will enter into God’s armory, suiting up with the whole armor of God.
- Discover the Keys to the Kingdom given to you, and learn what they unlock; discovering your true nature in Christ, the authority given, the Sword of the Spirit, the covering armor, and the mission ahead, you will truly learn to pray . . . Upside Down!
